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a great thanks to huili for this post really states everything ((:

Have been doing lots of reflection and realising lots of stuff... i don't know where to start and also don't know how to end.Have you wonder what you want in life. Not in terms of asking yourself when you get married, what career you want. Rather really sit down and ask yourself what you want in life?Maybe u may sound emo here. BUT please, if you are seriously think this way i will appreciate that you stop reading. What do people define as emo? Rather i feel that those who tend to get emo is the one that tend to learn and grow faster. Sometimes people don't get emo for nothing. Not telling/saying out doesn't mean they dun appreciate you or don't mind such things happen. I remember someone told me before that if you did your part regardless in friendship/family/bgr then don't feel too sad over it. I wonder what people out there who regard themselves as "not emo king/queen" thinking. Just to say... hey you are not emo because you are "lucky" enough not to experience it. And so please don't give up or condemn people that usually get emo. To be frank, aren't they expressing their emotions? Isn't that moments the most TRUE as they just trying to convey some things just maybe not in an appropriate manner? But to those who tend to be emo.. just go ahead and be. Don't hide, don't fear. Just remember that at the end of the day just smile(: I can understand that sometimes we tried to be the "best" friend for one another. But seriously, we always tell our friend," Hey just be yourself!" Tsktsk... can i comment something? Can you guys really accept if people voice out how they feel? Have you also wonder whether you take the friends around you for granted? Have you hurt your friends before? And also, have you neglect your friends? And when i mean friends- they are those who are there for you and really showering the love whenever you are sad. I believe questions that have been mentioned earlier on the answer will be a YES! i just feel that... life is so confusing and weird especially with respect to friend. They come and go. They leave significant footprints in our heart and also hurt us the most. Some people are insensitive, some people are cold-blooded and some people are those selfish freaks. Hey, why not i put it this way... have you put yourself in people's shoes before you get angry? I can guarantee if you have done it before, the number of times you feel angry will be lesser because you will end up feeling sad. Trust me. Have you encounter quarrel with your friend and he/she actually took initiative trying to sort things out but you just pretend nothing happen? Seriously this is bad. Try thinking this way, if you are trying to sort things out with someone be it whether you are the "victim" or not but he/she don't reply to what you say. How will you feel? Of course, i understand that different people have different ways of handling their problems but is it better if you all are kind enough to reply them. Note: If you ain't feeling good about such thing, the other party won't feel good too.( Unless the person don't regard you as friend, that's another case).Furthermore, can anyone predict how long you guys can live. I bet those people at China did not expect that they will actually experiencing an earthquake. Apart from being sad over seeing your love ones dying infront of you, i bet they will feel regret for not treasuring the times together. Till here, just wanna say im not being negative but please, such questions are in our heart but who actually go face and think about it? Is it only when you see your friends dying then you will feel this way? Of course, this is what i have been experiencing. I am not a good friend neither am i a good daughter. But i am frank enough to admit all this stuffs. I seriously dunno how to be a good friend and crying is my way of expressing my true feelings. I'm not thinking too much rather is that feeling you understand? I feel disheartened not because my friends don't listen to me but when they pretend nothing happen and ignore me. I know some of my friends do not worth my care and tears. But if they need me, i'll be there. That's just me. I'm not trying to act im so great but trying to say why things just turn out so bad for me :( I'm tired~ im exhausted... I thought i could pretend nothing happen but i really cannot.I'm not trying to be emo. Is just some question appearing. I just want to share... think about it maybe you will understand. Excuses are not always applicable. Try to start thinking why such thing will happen and how to solve it and not staying put and say people think too much, emo or even saying you did'nt know about such stuffs. Like what i say, people emo because they are showing their true self, people think because they treasure you and hope things will turn out fine. And if you really didn't know some stuff you ought to clarify then leave it hanging there. Trust me... Friends are meant to be love and please start feeling in another way maybe you won't give up your frens.