2 hands 1 cable 1 wakeboard.

what happens when u trust too much? in peoples promises, or their speech? or perhaps too caught up with trusting someone that u dun have any doubt that this person would in the end, change what he/she has said.

maybe its because im too gullible, something i realised, ever since young, my brother used to trick me. even my best friend chin whee, tricked some of my cash while playing black jack by shuffling the ace to the second card.. or playing the P2P game, where i got hacked, countless of times, and eventually give up on that game, only to find the culprit being my brother, just to stop me from playing so he could play.

although all these were in the past, something interesting to look back upon, but eventually u realize, whatever that happened before, might be happening right now.


friends going back on their words,

not keeping promises,

and the list goes on.


and sometimes, it might be due to you being too nice, or too happy go lucky, that they just dont give a damn, like keeping promises, a deal, having your word.

and it happens all the time, for instance, not turning up for a bbq when u said u would, it may seem childish, but as a close friend, the purchase of food, the company, everyone expected u to come, and maybe you dont see the need to, im ok with it. but instead of saying, im on my way and not turning up, u shld have said, sorry man, i wont be coming. its called courtesy. learn it.

and there are other incidents, where a promise was made, and u respected it, only to find out, it was all a lie when 1 month later, u see something else. not discussing that in detail, because if i would, it would be pretty obvious who it is.


so then again, should i or should i not trust promises made? or should i just be as gullible and get laughed at 10 years down the road about how stupid i was, being so naive and trustworthy when people takes advantage of you?









thanks ms chng, for listening out. appreciate your opinions. haha.